Steve Coffman

Steven Bruce Coffman, lovingly known as Steve, departed this life on July 21, 2026, in Arlington, Texas, after a brief and brave battle with cancer. Born on January 30, 1945, in Warrensburg, Missouri, Steve filled eight decades with laughter, purpose, and the steadfast heartbeat of a life well-lived.

From the very start, Steve wore a sparkle in his eye and a ready wit on his tongue. Those fortunate enough to be around him quickly learned the healing power of laughter—whether through a subtle aside or a joke delivered just at the perfect moment, Steve's humor drew people together. He navigated the changing tides of life anchored by resilience and kindness, ever ready to roll up his sleeves and do what needed doing. Steve's hands, calloused and capable, shaped much more than just his own story. Throughout his career, he worked countless manual labor jobs that spoke to his tireless work ethic and his knack for finding dignity in every honest effort. His professional journey took him from general laborer to Vice President for Cap Gemini DASD, an ascent earned through reliability and integrity. Later, he contributed his talents at Memorial Lutheran in Houston, where his willingness to help and unwavering good humor left a deep imprint.

A man who understood the value of tradition and hard work, Steve was proud of his high school diploma—an early milestone that marked the beginning of many successes that followed. But perhaps what truly defined Steve was not the roles he filled, but the way he filled them: always with humility, a ready laugh, and a keen sense for seeing the good in every day.

When he wasn’t at work, Steve’s heart was drawn outdoors. He reveled in camping beneath wide-open skies, seeking the serenity of fishing and the camaraderie of hunting trips. Golf games with friends became less about the score than the memories made, while his hands were at peace in the garden, coaxing beauty from the earth. These passions stoked the flames of his joy and offered him a canvas to share time, stories, and laughter with loved ones. Steve's love for building extended beyond mere structures; he quite literally built the house he and his beloved wife, Alice, called home. That same generosity of spirit led him to craft homes for several friends, each board and beam a testament to his caring nature and skilled hands.

Family meant everything to Steve. His proudest legacy was his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren whose lives stand taller because of his guidance and encouragement. Steve is survived by Alice, his devoted wife of nearly 40 years. He is also survived by his daughters Hilary Bain and husband Glen, Amber Grabham and husband Arnold, and son Dan Gomez; and grandchildren Madison, Jason Good, Amber Miller, Jacob Rockers, Tyler Grabham and Josiah Grabham. He is preceded in death by his mother, Irma Louise, and his father, Joseph Marvin Coffman Sr., along with his grandson Mark Bain.

Steve Coffman's story is not just one of personal achievement—it is a testament to the quiet heroism of everyday kindness, to laughter in the face of hardship, to the sturdiness of both physical and emotional foundations he created for those he loved. To remember Steve is to recall not just a man, but a buoyant spirit—one who built, who nurtured, who laughed, and who loved with his whole heart. His absence echoes through the lives he touched, even as his memory continues to inspire.

A memorial service for Steve will be held Friday, July 31st, at 10am at Charity Lutheran Church: 1101 SW Wilshire Blvd, Burleson, TX 76028

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the American Cancer Society in honor of Steve's hard-fought battle.